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Thursday, November 14, 2013

Cyberbullying is Rampant on YouTube.

I' m normally one to keep my posts light, but my baby girl is under attack, and no one can seem to stop it. Or cares.

My teen daughter has been through a rough time. She had trouble making friends. She had social problems all through school, until we finally received a diagnosis of Asperger's. Her major functional issues are purely social; she doesn't have ADD, or anything like that. She doesn't require medication, and is instead receiving counseling, attending a special needs school, and learning coping techniques.

In this process, she discovered an affinity for making fan videos, and despite misgivings, I allowed her to get a YouTube account to show her work to her friends. I monitored her account, and she had no problems at all.

Then she got a new kid in her class, a self proclaimed "troll". When she refused to follow his YouTube account, as he used it exclusively for trolling, he told her we would be going after her account.

Suddenly, rude comments started appearing in her Discussion section. Someone posting under her name, saying things like "I'M GAY" and "I'M A BITCH" and "I POOP MY PANTS". YouTube's Advice is to change your password and put comments on mod only, which we did. No way to report the person, since they weren't using an account that could be posted into their immovable form. I figured it was her new classmate, but there was no way to prove it. I called the school, but they said they couldn't do anything either. Even when a classmate joined the fray and was caught, he simply changed his account name and denied it.

I tracked down a customer service number for Google, and was put on hold. I waited. And waited. And waited. For five hours and 21 minutes. No, I'm not kidding. Five hours of "Your call is important to us. Please wait on the line until the next available customer service...etc. No one ever picked up.

For a while, I thought the changed password and comment mod did the trick. No comments even attempted to come through.

Unfortunately,  it appears my daughter had picked a password that was hackable. She comes downstairs about an hour ago, hysterical. All of her videos, more than 80, are gone. In addition, replacing her About description is this: (edited for content, but you can see what it said.)

Yep. On a teen girl's account, a filth-ridden phrase with gay and racial slurs. Thank God that my daughter was so upset over the missing videos that she never saw it.

You'd think the notification system would have sent some sort of warning, but nothing. No warning that the videos were deleted. No warning that that horrible phrase was on an account with her name on it. Not a damned thing. My account was linked up to it as well as hers, and I didn't get anything either. The multiple safeguards I put in place were useless, BECAUSE THE TROLLS ALL KNOW HOW TO GET AROUND THEM.

There are no ways at all to talk to a human being at Google or YouTube.  I posted this to YouTube's Facebook page:

I have a feeling I won't get a response, though. They're all about the money, and one teen who needs an outlet for her stress doesn't bring in the millions. So my options are to close her account and let the trolls win, or leave it open, encourage her to start over again, and subject her to further abuse when once again, security is circumvented.

Since this is Blogger, maybe someone will pay attention. These little monsters are nothing but bullies and criminals, yet they're allowed free reign to destroy almost everything. Maybe we're not advertisers with big bucks, but we are consumers, and we should matter.

 My daughter's account link.


  1. First of all, scan her machine and your network in general for any code (spyware or virus or whatever) the troll can be using to get her password. Once you know that's clear, YOU choose the password for her and make it something she doesn't have to type in every time by saving it for her. Next, change it every week and do the same. Chances are, Troll Jr isn't using brute force attack.

    Keep screen shots of everything he's doing...comments and intrusions into her account. If it happens again, forget going to Google, go to the local police and tell them your daughter is being harassed online and the school and Google won't help, but you are fairly sure you know who is doing it. Especially in the shadow of the recent suicides over cyber bullying, any responsible police force takes this seriously. Oddly enough, the police lighting a fire under the collective backsides often does a lot more than your voice alone, and they can follow up in ways the school can't. He won't LIKE that, but too bad for Troll Jr.

    If he continues harassing her in school, jump on that with both feet. Threaten to sue unless they muzzle the little [deleted]. If the administration are wet noodles who refuse to act and/or the teacher is useless, report it directly to the school district administration, with a CC to the correct dept at the state level. That will light a fire, in most cases. It sometimes fails, so be prepared to make a stink about it.

    Basically, no child should be submitted to this type of attack. The trick is finding the right combination of authority figures over the little twerp to force his hand and arrange punishment. Clearly, his parents aren't responsible enough to police him, so let the police do it.

  2. The Zumaya website was hacked sometime yesterday after I reposed this. The hacker identified himself as "Anon Ghost." I've notified our hosting service and advised I'm prepared to prosecute.